Stanfield, Anita Julia

Anita, a longtime resident of Elk Grove, passed away on
December 30, 2009 at the age of 85. She was preceded in death
by her husband, Robert Stanfield; her brothers, Theodore and
George Delmar; her son, Donald Stanfield; and her grandson,
Gregory Stanfield. She is survived by her daughter, Carol
Stanfield; her sons and spouses, Robert and Krista, Edward and
Margaret, Gary and Sandy; and her grandchildren, Sean, Jennifer,
Alesha and Ted. Born November 6, 1924 in Overbrook, PA to
Dezso and Julia Delmar. Her family moved to the Los Angeles,
CA in 1927. After her marriage to Robert J. Stanfield on August
23, 1942, the couple briefly lived on a farm near Everett, WA,
before returning to Los Angeles, where their first three children
were born. In 1951 the family moved to a small dairy farm on
Carmencita Ave. in South Sacramento County. After her
husband's death in 1998, she moved into the city of Elk Grove.
Anita's many jobs included working as a child care provider,
hostess, waitress, photographer assistant (''colorizer''), crop
harvester, and census taker. She worked for the Elk Grove
Unified School District at Joseph Kerr Jr. High, William Daylor
High School and Rio Cazabero High School where she was
affectionately known as ''Mom''. She retired in 1987 after twenty
years of devoted service. More than anything, Anita enjoyed
spending time with her family and friends. For over twenty years
she hosted an annual Easter gathering for her extended family.
She enjoyed painting, quilting, gardening, digging for antique
bottles, and going on sightseeing drives throughout the Western
United States and Canada. In later years, the painting classes at
the Elk Grove Senior Center became a frequent occasion and joy
in her life. She is fondly remembered as a representative of her
generation, the care she gave her husband after he became ill,
her political causes, her sense of community, her charity, her
humor and her gratitude. The family is planning a Memorial
gathering in the Spring of 2010. Memorial donations may be
made to the Salvation Army or American Red Cross - charities
especially important to Anita.

Published in the The Sacramento Bee on January 5, 2010